The Church has a pornography crisis.
And it's time to talk about it.
Millions of Christian men are living in secret shame. Marriages are breaking under the weight of hidden sin. Pastors are watching their congregations fracture — and feeling powerless to speak. The silence in the church is not protecting anyone. It is costing us everything.
"If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin." — 1 John 1:7
The Problem
Pornography is not a fringe issue in the church. It is a pandemic hidden in plain sight.
64%
1 in 5
youth pastors and 1 in 7 senior pastors struggle with current porn use
of Christian men view pornography at least monthly
87%
of Christian men say they have never been able to discuss this openly in their church
Christian marriages affected by porn-related divorce or separation annually
200,000+
While the worldwide Body of Christ gathers each week to worship, a significant portion of those in the pews — and behind the pulpit — are carrying a secret that is slowly destroying them. The shame keeps them silent. The silence keeps them bound. And the church, by and large, has not yet built the safe, structured spaces these men desperately need to confess, heal, and walk in freedom. When darkness is allowed to stay hidden in the house of God, it does not stay still — it spreads.
These are not statistics about the world. These are statistics about the church. They represent men who tithe, lead small groups, teach Sunday school, and sing in the choir — while carrying a burden they believe no one around them could possibly understand. They represent wives sitting next to husbands they no longer recognize. They represent pastors preaching grace while privately drowning in shame. The problem is not a lack of faith. It is a lack of safe places to tell the truth.
"Too many churches are allowing pornography and hidden sexual sin to remain buried in secrecy. When the church avoids the conversation, darkness keeps its grip."
”This fellowship has helped me a lot because I can talk to other men who have gone through the same problems. I don't feel judged, I don't feel hated, and since then I feel more confident in my walk with the Lord. This fellowship has freed me from hating myself, and I can't express how grateful I feel for this fellowship."
- Brother Aaron
The Solution
Freedom in Light is not just a general men’s group. It is a private, Christ-centered fellowship for men carrying the kind of shame they have never felt safe enough to speak out loud. We provide a structured, responsible space where men can stop hiding, tell the truth, confess deeply, and begin walking in the light — without turning the fellowship into a place that excuses behavior, enables secrecy, or protects serious sexual sin.
Ultimately, Jesus Christ is the One who heals, restores, and sets men free. We are not here to fix men, but to encourage them, edify them, and offer a safe fellowship with like-minded Christian brothers who understand the battle. We provide a place where men can stop hiding, speak honestly, pray together, and point one another back to the freedom only Christ can give.
“But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.” - 1 John 1:7
”It is a tremendous blessing to love and be loved by other men who have been affected by the darkness in this world. Walking in the light cuts through the lies and has restored hope and clarity for me. I feel empowered to keep taking steps towards victory and I don't feel alone in this journey."
- Brother Luke
How We Can Help
Our exclusive fellowship gives men a private, Christ-centered place where they can bring the darkest secrets that have kept them bound in shame, fear, and isolation. Here, men can speak honestly, be encouraged by brothers who understand the battle, and be edified through prayer, biblical truth, accountability, and brotherhood — not to be condemned or fixed by us, but to be pointed back to the freedom only Jesus can give.
This community is invitation-only to protect brothers from trolls and harassment, allowing honest conversations and real support to happen among men who are genuinely serious about pursuing freedom and growing in their faith. To be invited you have to go through a short process which involves: watching two short videos, filling out a form, and booking a video introduction call. After the call, if both parties agree that this fellowship is for you, an invitation will be sent over.
If you are ready to step out of hiding and into the light of healing, click the button below. We look forward to seeing you on the other side.
For the man trapped in the darkness of porn addiction, Jesus isn't just a historical figure or a distant teacher; He is the Light that exposes the lies we’ve lived and the Savior who steps into our deepest shame to pull us out. The Bible reveals Him as God in the flesh—the only one with the power to break the chains of pornography and the "double life." Through His death and resurrection, He didn't just offer us a clean slate; He offered us a new life. He is the ultimate Truth that sets us free and the only hope for a man ready to stop hiding and start walking in the light.
Freedom through Jesus Christ
This fellowship only serves Christian men with porn addiction. If you are not a follower of Jesus we want to offer you the opportunity to know Him, right now. No matter where you’ve been or what darkness you’ve walked through, Jesus can meet you where you are. It is never too late to turn to Him.